The Cure
finally came to Hawaii. First time
ever. Steve bought us tickets, the day
they went on sale, and I must say that I felt like a teenager driving to the
Blaidsdell Arena. I was that
excited. And we stashed beer in a
cooler. Rebels.
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refreshment in the car before the concert. |
They played Lovecats. Hot Hot Hot. Let’s Go To Bed. This Close To Me. LOVE that music. I wore super high
strappy sandals. The damage they did to
my feet in 3 hours will be felt for a least a few days. Next time I’m wearing my Newtons.
Which leads
me to why I am blogging. I ran into a
ton of people I hadn’t seen in a long. long. time at the concert. Some Facebook “friends” who I rarely see, but
we keep tabs on each other through social media. At one point in our lives we saw each other face to
face. Often.
Three
women. Not together. All commented on my running. Like the first thing out of their mouth.
“Love
keeping up with your running.”
“Wish I
could run like you”. To which I replied, just lace up your shoes and run.
“I think of you and want to run, but….”. See above comment.
“Are your
pictures staged?” NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“You inspire
me Malia!” Music to my ears.
You get the
picture. They didn’t ask about my
work. I do work 40 hours a week, usually
more. I carry a phone on me and am “on call” 24/7. In fact the night of the concert. 6:30 pm. I was working. While applying make up. And figuring out an outfit. No one asked about my kids either. Have 3 of those the last time I checked. 3 darling little creatures who are constantly asking for money. Or anything else in my life. Not that cooking. laundry. or keeping up with the house is very
interesting.
I was in no way offended. I LOVE to chat about running. They probably regretted opening up that conversation.
But it got me thinking....
Have I given the impression on Facebook that all I do is run? It is my happy place. (Other happy place is the beach. In Hawaii.) I love to share my adventures. And the underlying goal: inspire someone to get out the fricken door. Cancer? Puuleeez! Kids? Apparently The Bob is the new Baby Jogger stroller. Husband deployed? All the more reason to lace up the shoes. Yet running only takes up a very. very. very small portion of my day.
Let's average 1.5 hours of running a day. Ok, maybe 2 hours. There ARE 24 hours in a day.
I don’t find
my office super interesting. (Work
yes. But a lot of what I do is not be to shared.) Except
when I get a Plank Owner's Surfboard. Stein. Country Music
Stars stop by for a visit. Speedy aircraft. Then I take a picture and post.
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Speedy Aircraft. The pilots I work with are much more badass than those that fly these. I just think jets are way cool! |
No one needs
to know how many loads of laundry I fold a day.
Or when I clean the house. But I
do “chores” daily. Really I do. I do not wear Lululemon throughout the
day. I’m not sure my boss would
approve. So I put on a dress, with
heels. Weekends? I live in a bathing
suit. After my run, of course.
Football
season started today. My feed will
soon have game posts about the most adorable 10 year old. 1st Cross Country Meet is at the
end of the month. Yeeeeeees. You know I must give weekly race reports. The oldest is in
college. Surely there will be some OSU
updates that I must share?!
Am I obsessed with
running? I feel quite certain I've given that impression. Probably not a good week to
have this conversation with myself. Monday, I “officially” started the countdown training plan to my 1st
Ultra in October. And knock off some minutes for The Honolulu Marathon in December. I would carefully say that running is my
hobby and sanity rolled up into one. It
also keeps me fit and healthy. And
challenged. The challenge makes me feel
alive and incredibly fortunate when I conquer it.
There are
days when Kanoa wakes up before I get home from my run. Sometimes he is waiting for me at the door
with his Brooks on. And we log a mile
together. Other times he is watching TV,
still waking up. There are hours when
running takes Steve and I away from the kids.
But we choose to have date “night” in the morning running 3 hours in the
mountains. We could drive into town. Eat at a restaurant. See a movie.
Same amount of time away from home.
Running mountains is our idea of a great time together.
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"Date" morning started with a sunrise on the north shore. 17 miles of beauty followed. |
Running
truly brings me joy. Which is why I post
about it so much. But there is so much
more to this life than my runs. I just
happen to work everything in around the run.
Or after the run. Whatever...
I know that you do more than run. But I often think we can use photos and social media to portray our lives as better than they really are (not saying you do), so I try to be honest about the struggle and the ups and downs because my life is GREAT, but there are struggles.
ReplyDeleteAppreciate your family, all 5 of them. :)
Benji
I agree Benji! I also think there is a fine line between airing your "dirty laundry" ( :) ) and keeping it real. I go on Facebook to be entertained and see pictures, not to hear whining or political rants. Others may go on Facebook to hear other's opinions. I think we post what we want to see. Now on IG, if I post a non running picture, it gets bypassed. Yet, I choose to follow athletes so probably bypass cute kid pictures too....
DeleteSo true - great to reflect on this! You could say that Running is your art? I guess we have to try and have the same attitude for everything we do - even the laundry :) But I'm not sure I'm ready to start thinking about a PR for that...
ReplyDeleteI like the "Running is my art" statement. A lot. Let me know if you figure out a PR for laundry!!!
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